This is me when I'm not doing the stuff for my regular blog. That means not necessarily as careful, not necessarily as able to do things, lots of things could be different than usual. I don't do trigger warnings, and I have genuine well thought out reasons that aren't just some kind of callous BS.
my two cents (or more): Oh also
One specific thing about when the patterns I mentioned in the last entry take the form of “DON’T USE THAT WORD”…
I actually have problems with some of the parents doing “ban the R-word” stuff most vehemently because, like with the people not affected by the word the OP mentioned, they are not the…
In many cases I think it’s worse than their voices overrunning us. I don’t even think many of them know we have voices. I’ve seen some of them even act like their child/etc. may not even understand the word or its meaning and it’s their pain as a parent/etc. that makes the word bad.
ETA: And it doesn’t even take understanding the word to get its meaning. The blast of hate speaks for itself.